Ph.D., associate professor Zhubanizarova N.S.

   Kazakh National University of Al-Farabi, Kazakhstan

The influence of awareness of mans’ relationship

to intra-group processes

         Among the variety relationships connecting members of different collective groups, especially clearly distinguish two major systems of relations: the business relation is relationship, arises between individuals as bearers of certain public functions, and personal relation is relationship, developing on the basis of sympathy or antipathy, attraction or repulsion. These systems of relationships are closely intertwined by various interdependencies and interactions, but we can’t call them identical. A content analysis of communication is a necessary consequence of the analysis of its subject and object. The existing description of the content source is an understanding of one partner as the subject and the other as an object: the content of communication is reduced to examination on what part of psychology of interlocutor we influence, and according to this influence we select different content areas: informing, persuading or inducing to the action of [1].  In the case of rejection of such subject - object consideration and moving to the subject-subject consideration the content of communication is reduced to some kind of "activity" of one subject directing to other, remaining at the same subject, without disclosing the specific content of this activity or with an indication that it is the material activity, consisting in embodiment of the transferred information in a system of signs [2].  To construct such structure is possible, if as an object to take that one, which defines any human interaction, exactly joint ventures, and as  a subject  to take the social group.                                       The interactive aspect of communication is a conventional term, means the characteristic of components of communication related with interaction of people, with immediate organization of their joint activities. Objectives of communication reflected requirements of joint activities of people. Communication should always suppose some result - changing the behavior and activities of other people. In this case communication is as interpersonal interaction, i.e. set of relationships and influences of people, emerging in their joint action. Interpersonal interaction is a sequence of reactions of peoples to the real action of each other: the act of A individual, changing the behavior B individual prompts the response reaction of B individual, and these influence to A individual behavior.                                  Joint activity and communication occur in the condition of social control on the base of social norms; model of behavior accepted in society, regulating interaction and interrelation of people and organizing specific system.  These violations turn on the mechanisms of social control, ensuring correction of behavior, deviated from the norm. Unequivocal reaction of surrounding to someone’s action difference between behaviors of others, affirm existence and accepting of behavior’s norms. Range of social norms is extremely wide: from the model of behavior, corresponding to demand of labor discipline, military duty, patriotism, to the rules of politeness.            Using social norms make people responsible for their behavior, allows by adjust their actions and deeds evaluating them as appropriate or incommensurate to these standards. Orientating to these rules, a man compares the forms of his behavior with the standards, chooses the necessary and in such way regulates his relations with other people. Social control in interaction process is realized in accordance to the repertoire of role, "performed" by communicating people.  In psychology the term “role” means normative approved model of behavior, expected by surrounding people from everyone who hold the same social position (the post, age or sexual delineation, etc.). Too much role position often gives rising to different conflict. Interaction of people, performing different roles, is regulated by role’s expectations. “Performances” of role is subjected to social control and get social estimation, but just a considerable deflection from a model is convicted by the crew.                              So, the initial condition for the success in communication is conformity of behavior of interacting people to exception of each other.  It’s impossible to imagine that communication would be always smoothly flowing and devoid of internal contradictions, under all circumstances. Manifested antagonism of positions is detected In some situations, reflecting the existence of inter excluding  values, goals and objectives that are sometimes lead to mutual hostility and  interpersonal conflict arise. The social significance of the conflict is different and depends of the values ​​ underlying of interpersonal relationships. There are two kinds of determinants which could be causes of conflict in joint acting: the subject-business disagreement and differences of personality-pragmatic interests. And the conflicts of the second kind are characterized by force of high emotional tension. The reason of rising conflicts is also some semantic communication barriers, preventing forging interaction of communicating people. Conceptual barrier in communication is difference (gap) in meaning of expressed requirement, requests, and orders for the partners in dialogue, creating an obstacle to mutual understanding and cooperation.  Especially semantic barriers have important role in pedagogical communication, because of the age difference, existence and absence of life experience, the divergence in interests and, it is important to point, the mistakes in choice of educational effects from the part of adults. Here the important meaning has the concept of personal sense, deeply analyzed in works of AN Leontiev [3]. It is known that, apart from to generally accepted system of values, words and other facts of human consciousness have some personal meaning, some special significance individual for each. Personal meaning, i.e. special significance for a man acquires those that connected the objectives of the motives for its implementation, those that is told etched his needs. The same word, action, circumstance may have different meanings for different people. Therefore, in communicating the important role plays the ability to put yourself in someone with whom you associate. Other words, in any situation of communication it needs “the same understanding of the situation”, i.e. understanding of strategy and tactics of partner behavior on the situation. The strategy and tactics of interaction may be developed only on the basis of mutual understanding. Moreover, if the strategy of interaction is defined by carried out social activities, the tactics of interaction is determined by a direct representation of partner. In the unity of these two points, the real situation of interaction is created.                                                                     For a theoretical analysis of the problem it’s necessary to find out exactly the original concept of the psychological impact. Sometimes the phenomenon of psychological impact is mixed with the phenomenon of action. Meanwhile, these phenomena are different. Action of the subject, aimed to the physical object looks like a manipulation of the object. At the same time, the psychological impact has other direction: not to physical object, but to the individual or group subjects, to their mentality. The psychological impact is like a subject - subject relation.This principle refer to the subject of communication and  of this activity is contented in the fact that the group as the subject of communication as opposed to individual, isolated individuals, acting as mutual subjects together, is not preceded by communication, and is generated by it. Combination of individuals becomes a group only as a subject of communication, activities aimed to the joint activities of these subjects [4].                  The psychological impact is a structural unit, a component of communication. By its very nature, the psychological influence is penetration of one person (or group) into the mentality of another person (or group of persons). The purpose or result of this penetration is changing, restructuring of individual or group psychological phenomena (view, attitudes, motives, orientation, condition, etc.). The reformation of mentality of individual or group mental phenomena under the influence of psychological effects may be different both in wideness of psychic phenomena, also in stability of their changing. So, by the power of pedagogical influences teacher could restructure the ratio of students to a particular educational subject. About the wideness changes in psychology we can say when a group of psychological phenomena is reconstructed, for example it could be emotional sphere of personality. Personality changes under the influence of others may be temporary, transient or stable. The observations show that a lot of or even most of adults consciously adopt each other's views, judgments and motivations, which are stored during many years, surviving numerous tests and the vicissitudes of fate.   A special form of human communication is a friendship, as a stable individual electoral system of interrelationships and interactions, characterizing by mutual affection of communicators, a high degree of satisfaction in communication with one another, mutual expectations of reciprocal feelings and preference. Submission of another person closely related to the level of own identity. This connection is twofold: on the one hand, wealth of representations of yourself defines the wealth presentation about another person, on the other hand - than more fully disclosed any other person to you, than it is become greater the representation of yourself . A similar idea was expressed by Vygotsky: "The person becomes to himself what it is for himself, through what it is for others" [5]. As already was mentioned, interaction is impossible without mutual understanding. It is very important, as partner is perceived in communication, in other words, the perception of one man to another.                                                 This process acts as mandatory component of communication and can be called a perceptual part of interaction. On the words of S.L. Rubinshteyn/6/ based on the external side of behavior, as if we “read” another person, decode the meaning of his appearance. Impressions occurring at the same time play an important regulatory role in communication. In the course of knowledge of person, simultaneously is realized his emotion valuation, and attempt to understand the structure of his actions, and his strategy based on this changing of his behavior, and building of a strategy of own behavior. So, the reference is specific features of perception of social objects, which include: the perception of not only the physical characteristics of the object, but also behavioral characteristics, i.e. formation of ideas about its intentions, thoughts, abilities, emotions, attitudes, etc. In addition, this concept content includes the forming of the imagination of those relationships that connecting the object and the subject of perception. In the most general terms we can say that the perception of another person means the perception of appearance, matched with the personal character of perceived individual and interpretation of his actions on this basis.

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2 Kagan M.S. Human activities:(experiment of Systems Analysis).-M., 1974 .- 328 p. 3 Leontiev A.N. Activity, consciousness, personality. - M., 1975. – 304p.

4 Petrovsky A.V., V.V.Shpalinsky Social psychology of the collective. -M., 1978.– 175p.                                                                                                                5Vygotsky, L.S. The development of higher mental functions. -M., 1960.-206 p.