c.p.s. Belgibaeva G.K.
master Iskakova D.M.
Karaganda State University by the name of E.A.Buketov.
Kazahstan.
Upbrining the kazah girls using
national wizdom and their pedagogical condition
To form national
customs in upbrining of the kazah girl, and inculcate it in process of
upbrining – it is the main demand in our time. Our upbrining of posterity
depend on mothers, and it is developing in investigation our traditions and
customs.
The upbrining of our children it is come
early, firstly the nation upbrining begun by Қîðқûò àòà.
He suggested to respect women, and
never to hurt their pride.
Shokan was against that early parents
of girls gave them to marrige without their agreement. He said that “we must
change this customs and traditions, we must give the power to court than to the
mulla who suggested to give to marrige young kazah girls ... Therefore court must punish
sultans and rich peoples in order they mustn`t
to marrige with young girls, before their majority. ” He said that in
order to choose the әê³ì of village, it mustn`t do richers. He choosen by people in order they have responsibility
before people.
Û.Altynsaryn opened the college with hostels for kazah
girls. He decided to upbrining them for their future. And he was against that
kazah gave their daughters to old men, or they cramed to marriedge their ten
old sons to woman who had married and who husband was died. Also he was against
when old men who wife died wanted to marrige on young girls. All time they
could exchange girls with swine.
Early people thaught that if the girls
go to study or when they want to have knowledge was bad idea. They thought if
they would have knowledge they can be bad.
Abay was against in this ideas then he
opened the school for girls.
Nowadays the main problem: that girls
need upbringing as future mothers including pedagogical side and give them
advices.
In every family they say “Áàëàíû áàñòàí ...” it means that child
need upbringing when he little yet. Our forefathers could give upbringing in
society. In order to be human there are seven ways.
1. Don`t speak when
somebodies talking.
2. Don`t walk alone.
3. Don`t laugh aloud.
4. Don`t be boor.
5. Don`t gossip.
6. Don`t beat anybody.
7. Never be light
minded.
8. Don`t gape looking
to somebody.
9. Don`t sit stretching the legs.
10. Don`t
sit wrong.
11. Don`t
eat so much.
12. Don`t take somebodies thing without
his pirmission.
13. To close forbidden bodies to wear
modest dresses.
14. Don`t flirt with somebodies.
15. Don`t sleep before night.
16. Don`t sleep so long.
17. Don`t scratch before somebodies.
18. Never refuse from customs.
19. Don`t say bad things about people.
20. Respect the old people.
21. Don`t drink a vodka and don`t smoking.
22. Don`t swear at somebodies.
23. Don`t beat with somebodies.
24. Don`t be coolness.
25. Don`t be cruel.
26. Never go to the river alone.
27. Don`t sleep with anybody and anywhere.
28. Don`t run to marriege with somebodies.
29. Don`t
speak bad things.
30. Don`t
move rude.
31. Don`t
beat with legs to somebodies or animals.
32. Don`t humiliate somebodies.
33. Don`t scoff at somebodies.
34. Don`t curse with somebodies.
35. Don`t to make up.
36. Don`t be a jealous and rancorous.
37. Don`t
be presumptuous.
38. Don`t cheat somebodies.
39. Don`t
be insatiable.
40. Don`t like bad things.
The kazah people gave 10 advices for
girls in order they never go to bad ways.
1.To be well – broght – up. 2.To be clear. 3.To
be open – hearted. 4.To be molly coddle/ to be tender. 5.To be clever. 6.To be faithful. 7.To
be quiet. 8.To be
succes. 9.To be powerful. 10.To be
proude
Not little words about belief between people.
They say “The girl who good well – brought – up she open the door silently, the
girl who don`t well – brought – up she
open the door with noise.” “Bring – up the boy we will have aking, bring – up
the girl we will have nation.” “It tne girl is irresponsible it is bad, it the
boy is untalented it is bad.” “The girl beautiful by her works.” “Looking to
her mother you may marrieg, looking to her plate you may eat.” “The good girl
as milk .” “Men and women don`t be without each – other.” “Run away at
untalented boy, run away at trifle girl.”
Now a
days the girls make – up awfully. They loose natural beauty. They speak a very rude, and can not speak in
kazah language.
Early
all good, and beautiful things gave to girls, they respect them very much it
was the customs of our kazah people. Therefore they were a very faithful
beatiful well – brought – up and clear before their people. They were
proude and respecteble.
Girl – is life`s flower, they are
future mothers, they are happiness of family.
The
upbringing girls in school,
we devided on three parts. First to educate them fo being clear and well
brought – up to read a books, to be interestied in something it is in little
age. Also when they go to 5 till 8 forms Brining – up them so on bring – up her
to be respectable, honest
and to be kind. The thirs is when the study 9 till 11 form. It they study them
to respect mothers, fathers, teachers and elders then they study them to like
their land, nation, languege only then they can be good mother, beautiful girl and powerful person.
At the end I want to say if we
will do things which I
said in this article we will have kazah girls who well – brought – up beatiful,
open – hearted, kind, talented, and molly coddle.
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